Showing posts with label fair trade. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fair trade. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 17, 2017

First Steps to An Ethical New Year


  






























Is "ethical fashion" something you have caught wind of, or have known about, but can't wrap your mind around what that change in your life would look like?  If that's you, feeling stuck in making the switch this new year, I'd love to lend some personal advice on how to take the first steps. 

1. Choose. Whether going dairy free, implementing weekly exercise, or starting a job search, we all know that making any sort of positive change in life requires a choice. As for myself, I seem to be far more successful at starting and sustaining a change if I've made a decision to do it.  Don’t sit on the fence in an apathetic culture that constantly RSVP’s Maybe to Facebook invites.

Tip:  If you want to be successful at changing your consumer choices, share your decision with friends and family! Accountability goes a long way in motivating us towards our goals, especially when we know that it's written plain as day on our Instagram. ;)

2. Inspire. Yourself, that is! It takes very little time these days to search and find tons of gorgeous Fair Trade, vintage, handmade and other ethically produced products on the Internet.  Even if you aren't in a place to buy anything new at present, I totally encourage browsing in order to expand your horizons about what's available! Following ethical bloggers is also a great way to see how stylish responsible consumerism can be! If you have some feelings of separation anxiety from your favorite brands, they will quickly melt away when you see the unique and quality crafted, ethical items that are available!

Tip: Start a Pinterest board for the gorgeous ethically made items that you might invest in down the road-- believe me, it makes Target and Modcloth seem much less tempting.

3. Clean. Now, don't misunderstand. I believe that ethical style means moving forward, not looking back.  That said, when sweaters at H&M are $8 a pop, some of us may have been guilty of getting twelve different colors (when we actually only wear three). Do not, by any means, feel like you need to get rid of already purchased items that are quality and/or that you wear often-- you'll notice in my posts, that I have kept certain items purchased unethically long ago, because they are high quality staples in my wardrobe. That dress that you always try on but never wear, though? Maybe that one needs to go, to make space for something better.

Tip: Know that by recycling things you don't wear, to places like Goodwill or independent thrift shops, you are making another form of ethical consumerism possible: Thrifting! That perfect red J.Crew cardigan that you found at Savers for $7  last year would not have been there, if Jane hadn't admitted that she never wears red. Donate and thrift, thrift and donate-- it's a pretty amazing, sustainable cycle. :)

4. Save. Time and money, that is. Are some Fair Trade, vintage and handmade garments going to be more expensive than Walmart? Yes, but most are actually on par, or cheaper than popular stores like Banana Republic, Anthropologie or Urban Outfitters. What's more, ethically made products often have far more attention to detail and high quality craftsmanship than their non-ethical counterparts.

One thing has surprised me more than anything, that ethical style is extremely fun! Not only can you be rest assured that your dollar is doing good, but shopping thrifted, handmade, vintage and small, ethically produced brands generally ensures that your wardrobe will consist of unique items that can't be found in your average shopping mall.

Have you successfully made the switch to shopping ethical? I'd love to hear if there are any tips you would share, or how you've maintained the decision to be an advocate of slow fashion. :)

Thursday, July 17, 2014

Loosing Arrows



While some have been sensational enough to call our recent cooler temperatures the summer side of Snowmaggedon, I shrug and take the opportunity to sport cashmere-- seriously people, it's going to be 80 degrees again by the weekend.

This week has (so far) been full of small joys, things that will fade too quickly if I let them.  A sunny day walking around a new (to me) town with a friend.  Being given a free drink by a barista at my favorite coffee shop, for the second time and apparently just because.  Finding a 40's gown yesterday that is one of my favorite discoveries yet.  Beautiful sunsets, both captured and not.  It's little joys like these that remind me that God not only sees me and values me, but he delights greatly in me-- and I badly need that reminder this morning.

I'm headed out tomorrow morning to serve as a smallgroup leader at my church's summer youth camp, #Sandblast14.  A sea of 1,700 high school students, a handful of which I have the opportunity to walk alongside.  Right before events like these, Satan usually makes it his business to go for my jugular.  To throw me off or cause self doubt in my heart, to distract me from the words of my Father in a time when I'll need to share them with others.  Misunderstandings with friends that come out of left field, logistical issues, busy schedules and general confusion.  When this happens, I am so thankful for those little joyful moments that God put in my path.  Reminders for a rainy day (like today) when I need to remember that my Father sees me, prepares for me and never leaves my side.  They are arrows of truth designed to puncture lies and distraction.

Today I'm loosing arrows.





Details
{sweater} - vintage 60's, thrifted
{skirt} - vintage 70's from a closed Etsy shop
{shoes} - vintage 60's, thrifted
{necklace} - fair trade by Mata Traders
{bracelet} - gift

Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Beauty




I think I have realized in the past two weeks for the first time in a long time, that I am beautiful and that is okay.

I've long had something of a shame complex related to anything even remotely perceivable as narcissistic.  It's like I'd rather bleed out than be arrogant. I've definitely sorted out where that comes from in my story, but the largest struggle is allowing myself to be successful, good at things and yes, even beautiful without feeling guilty or shameful.  I have for years, subconsciously hamstrung, sabotaged and shot myself in the foot out of shame. 

Creating and continuing this blog has actually been a large stepping stone in getting past that, but I still wrestle with it on a daily basis.

Last Wednesday I purchased a loveseat from a woman who physically stopped me in my tracks, looked me in the eye and told me I was beautiful.  Twice.  Insistently, and it shook me.  So much that I even omitted that detail from my loveseat post because I didn't know how to address it-- I suck at receiving compliments, but I am getting better.

Then on Saturday I attended the 60th birthday party of a good childhood friend's mother, and so much of my old neighborhood crew was there.  At one point in the night, the brother of my friend (whom I have known since I was two) sat next to me and engaged me in a conversation I didn't expect.  He too told me I was beautiful and that my beauty had faded immensely during some of rougher trials in my life, that I had shut myself away, locked myself up inside and away from people.  The culmination of all of this though is that he's seen me emerge from that in recent years, a little more over time-- that I am open again.  It's taken almost 5 years, but I am.

Heavy stuff for a blog post, I know.  But that is the only kind of blog I want to write, one where words flow from my heart even if they are messy.  And they are.

Last Wednesday I, myself, realized that I am beautiful.  It was a strange, unexpected thing, but resulted in a jolt of joyful confidence, something I have not felt for a long time.  The friend who was with me in that moment, knows me well enough to remark that she had never seen me that way.  That it was good, and weirdly I agree. :)

Strange how feeling something so strongly and bodily, can make it real.  I prayed that night that I would never forget what that feels like, and that I'd allow myself to feel it more regularly. Confidence but out of purity, not vanity.

Something I doubted existed.



Details
{dress} - never produced sample, Mata Traders
{jacket} - vintage 40's, Knee Deep Vintage
{boots} - highschool remnant, Puma
{tights} - ModCloth

Thursday, November 7, 2013

Last White Door

This is the last post I'll be making from this now familiar white door. 



Oh what a humble surprise it was when I first started shooting here-- it bored me to death, but shocked me by becoming more charming by the day.  The first day the vine bloomed I think I did a double take.  Quite funny really, this dull and dirty doorstep becoming lovely and special over time.  It feels so kindred to my story.

Well played God, I see what you did there.









For the record, my new home has a green door. :)


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{dress} - vintage 70's, Mother's
{sweater} - Obey
{tights} - Target
{shoes} - handmade by me
{necklace} - Mata Traders
{umbrella} - vintage, thrifted

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Backroads

I've been working Admin. part time now for only a little over a month and though I enjoy it, I'm so glad I have two days a week off to work on my shop, create and have little adventures-- today was no exception!



My Mom and I often work very different schedules, but every now and then we get an afternoon to catch up.  Today we did so with one of our favorite past times, a drive and a walk w/ our dogs at one of the local forest preserves.  I tend to think of the area we were in today as the back-roads of suburbia; long winding roads with one lane going each way, twisting through farm fields, forests and wetlands.  *sigh* and what a beautiful, sunny day it was!  I do believe spring is well and truly here!
















Details
{Dress} Mata Traders - this is an amazing fair trade brand, check them out! :)
{Shoes} Lulu's
{Lace Slip} Vintage, thrifted
{Necklace} Vintage, antique market
{Ring} Vintage, Mom's